Lake Break

Lake is a card. He’s a character. He’s larger than life. I was a Tired Mama trying to nurse Lady Kitty to sleep the other night when I said to Lake, “Honey, I need some alone time.”

Lake gave me a look and without skipping a beat, said, “You’re going to find out that I’m right there in your alone time. If you moved to Africa for your alone time, the whole house would be empty because I would move everything to Africa too.”

“Okay, some quiet time, then,” I conceded.

Lake told me he wants a tablet for Christmas.

“Goodness sakes!” I said.

Lake said, “I know it’s kind of a goodness sakes, but I want it. I want it badly… Then when I need some quiet time I could go to my room and watch a movie.”

There’s a pause; I kept feeding Lady Kitty.

“Maybe when I’m eight,” he said.

This son of mine: I love him so much! At the same time there’s a lot of other factors to juggle—including his Baby Sister! He deserves more. He deserves more, not just undivided attention; he deserves multiplied attention. He’s so special and so much fun to be with. He’s the most fun to be with when you have the requisite energy and attention available.

The other day Lake said, “if you want to cuddle with a shark, you have to wear a metal suit.”

This is the kind of fun that is Lake. So it’s a win-win then, when Baba wanted Lake to come visit for his 75th birthday present this week.

Win-win-win-win, if you include the Joe Biden Kamala Harris win for the White House! Upon congratulating Baba on having just turned younger than the president this week for his birthday, he said, “If Biden can start being president [at 77], I guess I can carry on with my life [at 75].”

Lake is spreading his joy it to NanaBaba’s life. Meanwhile, our household is on a Lake Break. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, if that’s possible. Our hearts are already overflowing with love for Lake.

We welcome you back with open hearts and arms tomorrow, Lake. And tonight we enjoy one more quiet, dull, much appreciated, evening of our Lake Break.

3 thoughts on “Lake Break

  1. Tolle, this post made me laugh out loud. What a character! Our daughter, Grace, was like that and still is…at 23 years old! Hope she doesn’t change even though it sometimes takes a lot of energy to enjoy her energy! Sending you love and light!

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  2. Oh I love seeing your blog posts Tolle 🙂 I subscribe to the RSS feed so they show up in my inbox. I love reading how you write about your kids and that little bit of insight into your lives makes me all the more grateful and excited to get to know you and take your photos throughout the year. So much love! You’re doing a beautiful job of loving those little people. 🙂 Chamonix

    On Mon, Nov 9, 2020 at 10:20 AM A Perfect Day . . . wrote:

    > Tolle VanLaanen posted: ” Lake is a card. He’s a character. He’s larger > than life. I was a Tired Mama trying to nurse Lady Kitty to sleep the other > night when I said to Lake, “Honey, I need some alone time.” Lake gave me a > look and without skipping a beat, said, “You’re go” >

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